This
was a brand new term for me, but I have to admit that I love it. For a
very long time I have tried to put into words my feelings about my
submission. Yes, in the world I have to be in control. I have to
make quick decisions. When I do I expect those involved to put their
best effort forward; just as I would. Does that mean that when I am in my
private life and vulnerable that I always wear my public face? I do
not. When I am the private me I prefer my partner to be in control.
I like the traditional male roles. Telling me I should be barefoot and
pregnant in a kitchen is not an insult. What is the opposite of
feminist? Probably a submissive. I am not eloquent with my words
but I found someone that is. Dominant Soul's blog says it all so
well. If you are interested in this concept please continue to read or
take a look at his blog here:
Alpha Female & Submissive Vixen: Two Sides of One Coin…
Are You An Alpha Submissive?
In my
experience, Alpha Females and submissive vixens are often two sides of the same
strong woman: one public side, one private side. I have discovered that many
women who are Alpha Females professionally by day (Executives, Doctors,
Lawyers, Entrepreneurs, Supermoms) often crave to be submissive vixens in the
bedroom.
To be
clear, I am NOT saying that ALL Alpha Females are also submissives. I am saying
there seems to be a specific psychological profile which makes Alpha
Female/submissive a common archetype among women. I refer to these women
as “Feminist Contradictions”- Successful, strong, independent women publicly
who crave to be highly feminine & highly sexually submissive privately. I
describe them as “Feminist Contradictions” because most men view them as a
confusing persona/sexual contradiction that most men cannot comprehend or
decipher. In reality, they are Alpha Females/Submissive or Alpha submissives –
a submissive female to only one Alpha male while being dominant over all
others.
Many
women are submissive by choice or by natural yearning. Alpha submissives crave
to relinquish control to a strong, confident Dom by nature as part of their
need for mental & sexual escape from their everyday in control persona. Not
being in control is a relief from constant decision making / being in charge
during their busy, stressful daily lives. I believe most people don’t
understand that submission is partially an act of escapism from their own
public personas.
It is
also why these Alpha submissives can only be attracted to strong, powerful,
confident Alpha Male. Weak, meek men do not attract them. Often submissive men
misinterpret the public Alpha Female persona as these Alpha submissive females’
sexual persona. Men misread these women [as] wanting these Alpha subs to
dominate them sexually in private – complete incompatibility. A strong
decisive, confident man truly arouses their feminine senses. An Alpha
submissive can only submit to a man she feels is even more confident and
Dominant than her public persona – respect and trust are key requirements.
Unfortunately,
Alpha submissives often cannot discern between Dominant men and Domineering men
in their relationships.
What
confuses most men is there is a contradiction in behavior that these women want
from their male partners: Gentleman in public, Caveman in the bedroom. Men are
quite simple creatures really. Most men think if women want a polite, considerate
gentleman in public, they must want a polite, considerate gentleman in the
bedroom too. Secondly, society & feminism has robbed many men of their
natural baser instincts. Being a good husband/father by society’s standards has
feminized many men into minivan driving, cargo shorts wearing drones of
suburbia. So for a Alpha submissive to find a man who is very self-confident
and encouraging/supporting of her career while being sexually Dominant in the
bedroom is no simple task.
One of
the most consistent way I have found to identify Alpha submissive females in
public or on a date is they often say , “I intimidate most men I meet”. To
confirm my initial suspicions, I often make a bold flirtatious statement during
our conversation and then gauge her reaction to a statement such as. “Yes, but
even good girls need a good spanking on occasion”. Her inner vixen will
naturally reveal itself. By being bold and seizing what you desire sexually in
private from this kind of Alpha Female, it is a sure-fire recipe of turning her
into her naughty submissive vixen alter ego. It instantly turns on every single
Alpha sub I have ever been with.
For
example: Two years ago I dated a sexy, petite, highly successful female divorce
lawyer who told me during our first meeting for cocktails, she intimidates most
men she meets (my big hint about who she really was). I openly laughed at the
idea which annoyed her a little. I smiled and said, ‘You are 5′ 1″ and 110 lbs.
soaking wet, what’s so scary about you?”. We had intense sexual chemistry every
time we met for dinner. Her incredibly sensual & passionate sensual kisses
left few doubts in my mind about her true emotions for me but we had agreed to
try to go slow to get to know each other first before being intimate with each
other – No sex until after 5 dates was the plan.
On our
fourth date we had gone to a lovely Christmas party with her friends and
afterwards we went back to her house. While we kissed passionately in her
foyer, When I slowly slid my left hand onto her throat and I kissed my way up
her neck then whispered in her ear what I plan to do to her. I felt her entire
body go limp in my arms. I told her I knew instantly who she really was
sexually then her eyes grew really wide. She immediately took my hand and led
me to her bedroom. I slowly unzipped her dress and lovingly kissed and caressed
her exposed body which gave her goose bumps everywhere. She looked stunning in
just black push-up bra and sheer black panties.
She
pretended to play shy or coy when I tried to remove her bra… So I gently placed
my left hand softly on her throat again, turned her face down on the bed and
ripped down her panties to expose her ass. I then command her to count out loud
to 10 as I spanked her ass harshly with each number she spoke. When I was
finished spanking her, I said in a deep, slow commanding voice, “Who is my
dirty little slut?” She said sheepishly, “I am”. “Do you give your body, mind
and soul to me to do as I desire?”… “I do”… After that, it was all systems go
for a wild night of passion together…
What I
did in the bedroom completely blew her mind… She was so incredibly turned on by
being just taken without any warning and without being asked. She could not
stop talking about how turned on she was by the experience. She had craved to be
dominated for years but most men are either too intimidated by her as an Alpha
Female, too meek or too gentlemanly/polite to make such a bold move in private.
With
experience and maturity, you can see both the forest and the trees in life and
everything becomes much clearer. Alpha subs want a classy gentleman in public
who makes them feels beautiful, sexy and cherished but they also want a strong,
confident, decisive, highly sexually Dominant Alpha Male who will devour them
as feminine sexual beings in private…
I suspect that you have notice that many vanilla males want you to dominate
them sexually and many Doms tell you that you are not really submissive because
of your strong, confident energy that won’t be intimidated by mere macho
puffery. Neither of these groups of men recognize you as a contradiction of two
different women in one. They are also insufficiently strong and confident for
you. You need an Alpha male who is stronger than you that you are willing to
follow and submit to his lead.
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